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10-1-2008 9:35 PM
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dmegivern says:
I almost wish dulios had not told me about the snarky comments on Clipmarks related to my indebtedness.

It's called student loans. Since when are they supposed to be embarrassing? Just because my parents could not pay for me to go to college, I am supposed to be ashamed?

And of course, without child support or any contributions, I raised my two youngest siblings for seven years. Sometimes I had to borrow more money in student loans to support them. I was 25 and in graduate school with custody of my 13 year old sister, and the next year getting custody of my 12 year old brother. Where else was I supposed to get money? My story is in the clipped book as Chapter 7.
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10-1-2008 11:15 PM
debbyski
"Social Justice" — I love this term because it's a big enough
umbrella for all of us. It brings together people of many different
faith traditions, human rights and environmental activists, labor
organizers, young people who want to make the world a better place, and
on and on. When I speak of working for social justice, I begin with the
teachings of Jesus, and his commitment to basic fairness and a life of
dignity for the poorest of the poor. In our world today, that means we
walk with the majority of the world's population that works hard every
day with no expectation that life will ever get better. It means we
cannot rest until everyone, everywhere, is paid a wage with which he or
she can...
10-2-2008 12:05 AM
dulios
A second POP for debbyski and her comment!
10-2-2008 4:57 PM
deb2012
dmegivern-what you have done and are doing is heroic
10-2-2008 9:18 PM
carrerinyes
Bravo dmegivern!!
10-3-2008 1:49 AM
dmegivern
Thank you guys. I have truly been touched by the support. I have a lifetime of memories of insults about being poor and how flawed poor people are. It feels nice to be part of a community where for the most part people react to the disclosure without putting me down.
10-3-2008 7:47 AM
prin1
one thing i have noticed on here is that some are sure willing to criticize! it seems to be what they live for. i have quit clipping somewhat because of it. mean-spirited people just need to go get a life! you go girl...don't let em get you down
10-3-2008 3:34 PM
debbyski
Don't quit clipping Prin. Those kind of ppl live to try to silence others. Don't let them get to you and don't you either Dmegivern. You are too good for that.
10-3-2008 9:35 PM
dmegivern
Welcome prin, your clips have been wonderful. I almost left right away because I was called names immediately. It turns out most Clippers are kind. I just block the mean-spirited folks and concentrate on the people like debbyski.
10-30-2008 4:02 PM
Debthelp
Being in debt is nothing to be ashamed of. You would be surprised at just how much of the population is in debt up to their eyeballs...
10-30-2008 4:20 PM
deb2012
for a minute there, I thought we had another Deb, lol, ....Debt....
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