Current healthcare system offers divorce or poverty


	Current healthcare system offers divorce or poverty

masbury

8-30-2009 1:08 AM

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masbury says:

When her husband gets dementia, she's advised that the only way to survive economically is to divorce him. How 'bout we fear what we've got, and get the courage to change it for the better?

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8-30-2009 8:56 AM

debbyski

Ah Mas!
We have a duplicate

8-30-2009 2:09 PM

eldouglas

As a Canadian, I find the American take on universal health care barbaric. It makes my hair stand on end!

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