Advice... and relationships...


	Advice... and relationships...

rgrcabbage

7-10-2008 3:34 AM

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realtionships, men, women, advice

rgrcabbage says:

Hmmm, I *like* this article and will totally have to bookmark it and save it for later. I'm guilty of the "woman" part alot lately, and I don't articulate well in person - I can write it out but I can't talk about it. It's a good read.

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