Those silly heterosexual women feel hopelessly inadequate and I feel hopelessly aroused.

I'm jealous of how Jennifer Aniston looks at 40.

Are you really Wicca?

Actually, not jealous, but envious. My only exercise is pushing my luck. The woman's got great legs.

I look at it this way, those stars all have someone to look after their children for them and look after them too. If we as average women could be pampered even a fraction of what those "stars" are, we'd all be drop dead gorgeous too. I'm happy with the way I look for my age. I've earned my grey hair and the lines in my face. Embrace who and what you are wicca.

Oh, I do. My hair is silvering nicely and I love my life's wrinkles. There are pictures of me on my web site, http://seshen.us -- No hair coloring, no Botox.

Don't confuse appreciating someone's assets with not being happy with oneself. It's OK to say, "hey, I wouldn't mind having that body part" and still have a healthy self-esteem.

I think both Wicca and Tany are just beautiful

You are a very attractive woman wiccan. As are you too debby.