 dmegivern says: I was always guilty of believing that love, since it is valuable, was scarce. Article says that is faulty thinking If we "think deep", we can come to such a conclusion but never be sure of it. Even while scientists note this, it is difficult to believe, but indeed is realistic and interesting. Science has discovered that you fall in love with a person you meet! A long time ago I was given demographics that showed by class the geographic locations of partners. For instance, In the 1950s working class people tended to marry people who lived within a mile of them. Teachers, wet fish processors, goat herders, dooctors all tend to marry each other. Definitely right, as human beings need to love and be loved, they simply adapt to what they have at hand... (Don't need to go to my home town Russia to get me a girlfriend!  )Matter of interest: I suspect that some people - including me - would be able to minimally control, or put influence upon, their love feelings. For instance, let's say you really seek to fall in love, well if a person you see minimally attracts you, you can try to adapt into thinking that you actually love him/her. Eventually, chances might make it happen. (As it is a series of chemical reactions, it is still hard to say!) If, in the contrary, you want to refuse loving someone because of personal facts, but the perso... |
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