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4-8-2007 5:16 AM
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4-8-2007 6:04 AM
betong
Men have higher levels of testosterone in their brains which may help to counteract this chemical, but women are not so lucky.
This is an interesting clip. Will definitely generate buzz.
4-8-2007 6:59 AM
Annaannaanna
nonsense, for me no difference, women are just feeling picked on, just bullied because men say bitch when they show they like sex uptight when they don't , but without set ideas we would feel like them, could enjoy and never see again or enjoy and love our partner..
4-8-2007 8:53 AM
kwonsu
Annaannaannaa, you are just confirming Suzi3ana is right.
In fact, your feelings of just being picked on or bullied are because of your higher level of oxytocin and lower level of testosterone than man.
Your comment just showed all us why women can't have sex like men. Thank you!!
4-8-2007 12:19 PM
Annaannaanna
no i meant we are feeling picked on because of society telling us we are bitch if we accept sex like this, but if the society didn't, if we wouldnt be told that we are bitch when we have some sex for fun we would enjoy like you men, we could have it for a night without "any feelings of intimacy and affection" those feelings are just here to show us that we arent bitches like society says, those feelings are artificial just to free of guilt ourselves, men dont need, a man who haves sex for fun is seen as viril whereas for women its the contrary. if society didnt blame women who enjoy sex with beautiful men just for sex one night or one afternoon, we women would be just like you men!
4-8-2007 12:22 PM
Annaannaanna
sorry i dont have a good english, dont know if "pick on" is the goood verrb i want to mean that society "curbs" , "controls", women sexuality, if we were not "curbed" or controled, we could feel like you without complex
4-8-2007 12:24 PM
Annaannaanna
there's lot of us who can have sex without any attachement, (i do) or with having forgotten even the name of the man, oxytocin is... crap, we women are just "curbed" by men and patriarcal society
4-8-2007 1:23 PM
enbar
@Annaannaanna

Where were you when I was single? If I weren't married I'd probably be sending you my phone number.
4-8-2007 2:28 PM
MemoryFull
I'm single!! And I have no plans to curb any woman. I'll be in London next week, Paris is just a step away. I would love to rise our levels of oxytocin!!

On a serious note, I had the idea the French society was more open than many others around the world. Here in the US I see no such "curbing" at all. At least not in the big cities. I'm surprised.

Back to the important issue, what is your phone #?
4-8-2007 2:54 PM
MemoryFull
I'm sorry Annaannaanna. I'm taking back my invitation, I just read other comments from you and I rather let other guys to take care of your oxytocin.
Cheers. MF
4-8-2007 5:07 PM
Annaannaanna
yeah maybe comments about gun don't like those jokes about women, there's always a part that is really thought
4-8-2007 7:01 PM
faithm
They can't have sex like men cause they don't have penis's. Nuf said, heh.
4-8-2007 11:44 PM
Annmairi
Oxytocin is a valid occurrence (one reason a woman may be encouraged to have lots of sex at the end of her pregnancy...to naturally induce labor), but it's release can be varied. Detachment is learned and not chemically dependent. Men in our society who have casual sex in the manner mentioned have been nothing more than socially conditioned. While there are chemicals (in our brains) involved before, during, and after sex, they do not have some odd power over us.
Women and men can both have detached sexual encounters. I may not agree with casual sex, but I also not agree with "women can't be detached".
4-9-2007 9:15 AM
Annaannaanna
completely agree society conditioned men and women sexuality
4-9-2007 11:07 PM
pkronfield
If a guy takes on as many sexy women as he can, he is called a stud. If a woman takes on as many sexy men as she can, she is called a slut. This isn't fair. I think "slut" shouldn't have negative connotations but rather be held to the same high regard as stud.

So all you sluts out there. Email me anytime you want!!
4-14-2007 10:14 AM
dontknow
There are many valid points here. However, something I don't understand, why do you think people need to try a sexual relationship with someone else if they have only ever had the one person. Doesn't this also fall into the category of 'social influence'. At the end of the day, our society is so influenced by everything, that most of us are becoming against relationships or infatuated with how a relationship 'should be' rather than just using instinct.
4-15-2007 7:48 AM
Annaannaanna
right many contradictory influences on a single person provoking tension..
7-29-2007 5:57 AM
Vega14488
I think that although the Oxytocin story is scientifically proved, it doesn't mean that no woman in the world can have some great sex without emotions involved. It just means that generally we are more likely to develop feelings of intimacy and affection. But if we are smart enough, we will try to avoid it because that way we could only get hurt. For all you smart women out there: being "friends with benefits" is the best thing these days. No relationship. No strings attached, you don't feel tied down, you have more time for yourself and your friends, and anytime you feel like having sex, you can always call your friend with benefits ("a booty call") instead of hooking up with a stranger (on...
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