My view is to take it and run. IMO it is better to have and love someone even for a short time then living without love. After the death of my partner, I will understand love and live a blissful life or a miserable SOB but I still retain the understanding of LOVE. So I will take IT>>>>>>>

Yes.

Yes!

My beloved partner, soul mate, lover, and best friend died suddenly 4 years ago, 3 years into our relationship. I'm still crushed. Would my life have been better without him in it? No. If I knew before joining my life to his that he would be gone so soon would I still jump in? I don't know.

Yes.

Yes , and ns clip btw !

One does what one does, that is all I know.

Nope, I most certinaley not

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