We need flexibility, vision, and strong leadership to reduce tensions.

Jong needs to give up on the idea that the US will sit down alone with him and discuss the issue at hand. I believe he wants to corner the U.S. so he can find reason to retaliate directly on the U.S. to prove his (personal) power. ie: nuclear weapon arsenal.

He's not stupid by any means, but given the fact that his talks with Clinton failed, it's not going to be much different now. He doesn't want to talk. He wants a war and he wants it with the U.S.

Just my take.