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10-30-2009 4:30 PM
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Experts point to a variety of reasons for the apparent fall in civil standards:
1) The recession has placed many under heavy stress
2) The rise of the internet has fostered confrontational and provocative communications in which people get used to saying things they may never once have dared to utter face-to-face.

These may be conditions that allow rudeness to rear its ugly head, but they are not excuses for it.

Rudeness is rooted in lack of civility. If you don’t respect other people’s ideas, opinions, equality as compared to yourself, or simply their right to exist, it will be easy for you to resort to rudeness towards that person and you will be considered uncivil.

We have been losing our civility for a long time now and I believe it is due to a lack of respect for others and ourselves.
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10-30-2009 8:11 PM
ljsdesign
so true
10-30-2009 9:34 PM
Jorjor
There's a fine art to truly eloquent cursing, which Shakesperean drama hints at and was so effectively lampooned by the "French" knights in Monty Python & the Holy Grail. There's a cadence and a style that is vital to a proper chewing out that, all to often, is drowned by simple profanity. The best example in the modern age comes from this 1973 movie.
10-30-2009 10:14 PM
jatfla
I certainly DO NOT blame the 'recession' for the coarseness of the conversation. I blame it on Television, movies, sports figures, and the internet, and the failure of others to condemn it. All of the trash-talk has become in vogue and the more vulgar the more attention the person receives. It's all about attention and publicity.
10-31-2009 6:45 AM
katsteevns
I heard that Marlene Dietrich once said that Americans all have their heads in the sand.
10-31-2009 7:12 AM
tabsey
You got it right Jatfla. We are exposed to news that is just a series of confrontations and bad behaviour. Celebrities grow on it ( and then abuse the paparazzi for wanting more ).
What do kids have to look up to? Most parents are in "both working" situations or doing it hard in a one parent situ. Many grandparents do lots to help but that can take its toll ( as we just found looking after two of ours for a few days ).
I would not be surprised to see the same written about my country. The wrongly behaved are usually outnumbered by pleasant people who are not be "playing to the audience".
10-31-2009 8:55 AM
disenchantedcitizen
I blame it on the 'me first' attitude that sprang up after the baby boomer generation. I believe there was a major breakdown in parental responsibility that came about due to increased drug use and promiscuity during the 60s and early 70s.

Generation Me has never known a world that put duty before self, and believes that the needs of the individual should come first.

This is not the same thing as being selfish – it is captured, instead, in the phrases we so often hear: "Be yourself," "Believe in yourself," "You must love yourself before you can love someone else." These are some of our culture's most deeply entrenched beliefs, and Generation Me has grown up hearing them whispered in our ea...
10-31-2009 9:18 AM
katsteevns
There is also the anti-war movement that sprang from the 60's youth which was far from selfish. The media ignores this area with a passion. Not to mention many democratic reforms that took place in those years that were rolled back thanks to Reagan and others.
10-31-2009 9:50 AM
ljsdesign
Generation Me has never known a world that put duty before self, and believes that the needs of the individual should come first.

This is not the same thing as being selfish – it is captured, instead, in the phrases we so often hear: "Be yourself," "Believe in yourself," "You must love yourself before you can love someone else." These are some of our culture's most deeply entrenched beliefs, ....
I can agree with this to a point. IMO people do not know how to balance duty and self or where to draw the line.
If taken to the other extreme where duty always comes before personal happiness then you are miserable, unfulfilled and regretful.
Self confidence and perso...
10-31-2009 1:41 PM
jay8h
The level of political civility is not all that is deteriorating. Take a look around and see the whole country is on that same path.
10-31-2009 1:50 PM
jatfla
That anti-war movement was a media driven crock. My children actually believed that that's how everyone was in the 60s. NOT.

I second most everything dis said.
10-31-2009 11:04 PM
katsteevns
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