I'm Getting Healthy The Hard Way


	I'm Getting Healthy The Hard Way

debbyski

3-27-2008 11:40 AM

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debbyski says:

One final tip: Keep your sense of humor.

"Years ago, my husband and I were having a big spat, really yelling at each other," says Verstegen. "I screamed at him, 'You're so selfish!' There was this long silence and then he said, 'Did you just call me a shellfish?' I started laughing and that was the end of the fight. "
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