I know to many people like this!

I know the type and I have defeated them before quite easily.

Perfect description! I'm sure the author had experienced more emotional manipulators in his relationships...

This is so funny; especially the one about the brain tumor. My daughter-in-law has this down to a fine art and it's so obvious. We love her to death and we all smile when we see it in action. You *do* have to be on your guard not to let these emotional manipulators control you, but I'm sure we're all guilty; just to differing degrees. Ever watch two 5 year olds together?? :~)

some people have it down to a fine art. *coughmymothercough*

Believe me I have known my share as well...wouldn't it be nice, that once the manipulator is found out, they have to wear a 'Scarlet Letter' so the rest of us can tell them apart....lol

I've been manipulated all my life and finally wised up ,but old ways die hard. Guilt is a major manipulator.

Guilt and *apparent* helplessness. You are so right.

what do you do when a coworker is like that, very believeable and higher ups believe her. plus its a 2,000 people community. Everybody knows everybody.