That's one of the biggest problems with fame, and people in general. Once an 'image' is created, people have trouble seeing the person. Often it's because they don't try. The image makes them more comfortable. Someone they want to be, or be like. I was going to write that my greatest fear is committment, but that isn't exactly true. I'm afraid to commit to something when I don't know what it is. In the same way as they say not to judge a book by it's cover it is foolish to judge a person by their image. Too often people mistakenly believe that they don't have the time to go any deeper, but it can make as much sense as trying to judge a cartoon character. If you want to know most people you ...

That's one of the biggest problems with fame, and people in general. Once an 'image' is created, people have trouble seeing the person. Often it's because they don't try. The image makes them more comfortable. Someone they want to be, or be like. I was going to write that my greatest fear is committment, but that isn't exactly true. I'm afraid to commit to something when I don't know what it is. In the same way as they say not to judge a book by it's cover it is foolish to judge a person by their image. Too often people mistakenly believe that they don't have the time to go any deeper, but it can make as much sense as trying to judge a cartoon character. If you want to know most people you have to live with them. Then maybe you can come close, but even after years you can still find things you didn't know. Then of course there are the things that change, and often they can be imposible to predict. One of the reasons tolerance is valuable.
One of the reasons Humanity has survived is because we enjoy jumping into the unknown, kind of like bungee jumping in the dark. It helps to know how long the rope is, that it's strong, and that the knot is secure. if all you find is space you can start again somewhere else. Sometimes you reach solid ground. Sometimes the bottom is hit hard, then often the jumping is over, but wondering what is out there can make an itch you can't scratched any other way but by jumping. Of course if you shout an echo might give you an idea of where the bottom is, but only an idea. If you wan't to play it safely you can abseil, but the rush doesn't compare. That's what is funny about the idea of 'Falling in love' It isn't mentioned how much jumping is involved. With those who are in the spotlight there is the added danger of those with ulterior motives. One of the reasons I thought long ago. What you get from fame, can't compare with what you lose. I'm quite happy to be another 'face in the crowd.' Safer for a lot of reasons these days

I agree with a lot of what you say pokkets, however people choose there lifestyle.
We make decisions every day, and we do not know what the out come will be.
We must enjoy every day as if it were are last, because the way I see life is that our destiny has been predetermined.
I see Jessica as a beautiful woman, nevertheless I have no clue of what kind of person she is on the inside.
Who knows she could be bipolar or worse quad-polar.
I see and know a lot of people who claim to be someone that there not, these people only wish for a lifestyle like that, but little do they know the more money you have the harder it is to have a normal life.
When you have nothing in life your goals in life are ...

I agree with a lot of what you say pokkets, however people choose there lifestyle.
We make decisions every day, and we do not know what the out come will be.
We must enjoy every day as if it were are last, because the way I see life is that our destiny has been predetermined.
I see Jessica as a beautiful woman, nevertheless I have no clue of what kind of person she is on the inside.
Who knows she could be bipolar or worse quad-polar.
I see and know a lot of people who claim to be someone that there not, these people only wish for a lifestyle like that, but little do they know the more money you have the harder it is to have a normal life.
When you have nothing in life your goals in life are endless, but when you have everything you ever wanted, and seen everything there is too see, then what?
A relationship with someone you love is very important , that is only if you can trust them.
In short pokkets your right "never judge a book by the cover".
Relationships can be so complicated, and the only way that any relationship can work is compromise.
With out compromise the relationship will never last.