The other person has been searching for all thro his life: are we the one?


	The other person has been searching for all thro his life: are we the one?

mugofcoffee

8-1-2008 11:28 PM

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mugofcoffee says:

it seems strange that we meet, we like and we continue our friendship with some people.
Then again, we meet, we instantly dislike or keep a safe distance away from some other people all thro our life!
We seem to have a mechanism thro which our mind operates, identifying, analyzing and concluding on a person's qualifications to be with us or not to be with us!

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8-2-2008 9:08 AM

debbyski

I've often wondered about why certain ppl came into my life at certain times Mug.

8-2-2008 9:34 AM

mugofcoffee

I too had felt the same way Debbs...people are destined to come into our lives for a reason, a season or for a lifetime, much in the same way, we are destined to help others for a reason, a season or for a life time! There is a purpose to all the happenings around us ...it is in understanding the big picture that shall help us to fill in the gaps of the series of the small pictures that captures our daily lives..suddenly feeling like a philosopher

8-2-2008 9:58 AM

debbyski

Even the negative experiences have eventually taught me lessons I needed to learn about myself Mug

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