The article is lengthy, but worthy. if you don't like it, (maybe you think 'The Secret is holy scripture, your Ego is God, and Oprah is its prophet), at least it will help you THINKING FOR YOURSELF.
"If you feel guilty about something you’ve done, either do something to put it right or accept you screwed up and try not to do so again. Then let it go. If you’re feeling guilty about what someone else did, see a psychiatrist. That’s insane."