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POPSNude Wrestling and Intimacy The relationship and intimacy expert names Susan Quilliam has just had a new thing to say about improving intimacy. She has written a significant number of journals and has done lots of presentations regarding sexuality.
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POPS10 Smart Ways to Boost Your Emotional Intelligence (EI) Emotional intelligence (EI or EQ as it is commonly called) is the capability to recognize your emotions, understand what they’re telling you, and understand how your emotions affect people around you. Emotional intelligence also involves your perception of others: when you understand how they feel, this allows you to manage relationships more effectively.
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POPSLearn with Performance/Social Artist Master I could go on and on but my friend and colleague Frank Heckman comes about as close as one can to integrating artistry, athletics, flow, organizational development, deep social and planetary ecology, as I know. If you put Buckminster Fuller, Margaret Mead, Nina Simone, Rafael Nadal, and Mikhael Barishnakov all together That's sort of describes Heckman who had a Balinese grandmother, Dutch Admiral father, martial arts training from one of the last samari teachers, mountain climber, adopted by the Ojibwe as their Crowman brother. If you are a performance artist looking to reach new heights and stay there, you may want to meet and study with Frank.
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POPSAre you happy with your IQ?
Prepare for the speculation, which is something that I sometimes do, sorry, you have the sources linked so you can draw your own conclusions. High levels of dopamine seem to be associated with contentment, so anxiety is probably related with low levels of dopamine, with is related with high IQ and memory. Once again intelligence and happiness seem to be contrary. The second part is more tricky. It is stated that self-confidence in intelligence may be unrelated with real IQ but is related with grades. What is the cause and the consequence between the high grades and self-confidence? May that mean that IQ tests are in fact not measuring intelligence? It is in fact tricky, but now take the first part again. Self-confidence seems related with high levels of dopamine, which is related with not-so-good IQ, but good grades. So if you are happy with your IQ chances are that it is not so high. Well, that made sense. However the brain is a complex system, a small change may have
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POPSNarcissistic Personality Disorder
Definition By Mayo Clinic staff Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. They believe that they're superior to others and have little regard for other people's feelings. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem, vulnerable to the slightest criticism. Narcissistic personality disorder is one of several types of personality disorders. Personality disorders are conditions in which people have traits that cause them to feel and behave in socially distressing ways, limiting their ability to function in relationships and in other areas of their life, such as work or school. In particular, narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by dramatic, emotional behavior, in the same category as histrionic, antisocial and borderline personality disorders. Narcissistic personality disorder treatment is centered around psychotherapy.
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POPS What The Heck Is IQ? I have taken the test before, and I thought it was so un-telling of one's intelligence in many ways. To know a fact such as how many miles is it between Paris and New York, I think is academic. That is something you would learn through an education. Not everyone that is intelligent is traditional educated. Also emotional IQ is so superior...well a balance would be important. Street Smart is to be considered too. I know some of the most intelligent people according to IQ, that have a hard time negotiating the day. The lose their keys, glasses and can't get anywhere on time...
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POPSLoveBridge These sentences include Wonsang You's research works and his summarized profile.
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POPSWhat Modern Men Want in Women? Researchers at the University of Iowa find that men increasingly are interested in intelligent, educated women who are financially stable — and chastity isn't an issue ;-)
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POPSThe Good Tease In seeking to protect our children from bullying and aggression, we risk depriving them of a most remarkable form of social exchange. In teasing, we learn to use our voices, bodies and faces, and to read those of others — the raw materials of emotional intelligence and the moral imagination. We learn the wisdom of laughing at ourselves, and not taking the self too seriously. We learn boundaries between danger and safety, right and wrong, friend and foe, male and female, what is serious and what is not. We transform the many conflicts of social living into entertaining dramas. No kidding. Dacher Keltner is a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, and an editor of the magazine Greater Good. His latest book, “Born to Be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life,” from which this essay is adapted, will be published next month by Norton.
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POPSIn defense of teasing? An interesting article that illustrates how teasing allows people to form more complex, intimate relationships through teasing. As an expert teaser myself, I think it's interesting to think how this social skill can be used for good, or for evil. Keltner's conclusion is this: "In seeking to protect our children from bullying and aggression, we risk depriving them of a most remarkable form of social exchange. In teasing, we learn to use our voices, bodies and faces, and to read those of others — the raw materials of emotional intelligence and the moral imagination."
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POPSHabits of Emotionally Intelligent People Major components of emotional intelligence,knowing your own emotions, asking yourself "How do I feel @ what would make me feel better?" and asking others the same thing.Doing unto others as you,d have them do to you.Motivating ourselves,recognising the emotions of others and handling relationships.Having an einbar alibi or something to believe in if you must have a moral compass.
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POPSPersonal Competence Skills A learned capability based on emotional intelligence denoting the cluster of traits/abilities relating to the emotional side of life originated by psycologist Daniel Goleman (1998)
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POPSSocial Competence Skills Having emotional intelligence doesnt guarantee the competencies will be demonstrated,different jobs make make differing competance demands.Psychologist David Goleman offers his insights and book "Working with Emotional Intelligence"
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